There are many times in our life that we trip up and do something that can give ourselves a feeling of bewilderment. "How could I have done that?" "I'm never going to be able to fix this?"
A mistake we've completed that throws our life into a tail spin. A storm of horrific things to come because we made a grand blunder. This was not supposed to happen!
We think we create or cause these moments of error and we should have done it differently. Conditions were not supposed to go this way and now thing are taking the wrong passage.
But is any of this actually true, did anything really happen or occur in an inaccurate way.
Should I say, can life's moments ever materialize in the wrong order. Or is life structured in a way that is promised to be. Created in the way that is meant for us.
We are a very intelligent species that is ever determined to make the best life possible. This is accomplished by being innovative and constructive in our approach to how we accomplish things. By working together to make processes and production easier and easier.
Though in life's little messes we can know all the right facts and still have things go awry. You could of thought to have said or done the right thing but instead had a circumstance of cattywampus events.
A seemingly perfect life can come crashing down. Or on the flip side, a turn of affairs can make something extraordinary from little to nothing.
So how do we make sense of all this. Should we have done things different or, in truth, could it have gone no different. I mean, there is no turning back time (for now anyway) so life went exactly how it was supposed to go. It's all what we think of it from this point going forward.
Sometimes also, these so called 'miscalculations' can materialize in our favor and help us in a way we could not have perceived. Maybe we actually did though but just didn't realize it. And a lot of the time, after a fair amount of days have passed, we look back and say, definitely glad that accident steered me into my current direction.
To some extent life is controllable but a vast majority of it gets carried out without our authority. Making things happen and events curving left and right with no signing of our consent. But with distinct purpose that often changes our perception of sensibility and truth.
Often life can change the person we are with no prior knowledge and concreteness to let us know its all going to turn out okay.
I think there is a piece of the decision puzzle that we all to often miss. The reason for the choice and the emotional representation we choose to assign to it.
That are the ideas and arguments that help to perform the situation or the prolonging of misdirected logic of a situation that erupted spontaneously. Either way these emotional distinctions can have a great impact on the angle of our life's thereafter.
When something is done of gratitude, appreciation, or love we can trust that if we followed the heart things are going exactly how we need them to. Even though the roller coaster we are all on can seem too long or decides to dip to low. But patience is the virtue that keeps the emotional affair alive.
And the attachment of feelings towards an uncontrollable event can turn it into a whirlwind of speed bumps because we fail to see the perfection of the bigger plan that is in store for us. So, its not as though we got off path but we are exploding the circumstances that are bound to happen after something that causes the pieces to be scattered.
If we can look deeper at these situations we can see that each individual is different and needed things to arise in this order, with this timing, and with these aftermaths. To shake, stir, and shift us into a different direction or circumstance.
Something meant to help create our character and true self, so we can accomplish what we need to. To be put in the right place and time, with the right people so that everything can create our tornado of materialization. While simultaneously being a intrinsic part of every other individuals path we come into contact with.
Knowing that there all no failures, there are no mistakes or mishaps in our life. But that everything, and I mean everything, is there for a reason. That reason being the twist or turns to push us in the direction that we our most valued in.
This is not to say we should just let life flow and do whatever we want, although to some extent I do believe this to be true. But to make sure we come from each choice or response with love and appreciation.
To know that each event and life action is something to be grateful for and cherish. For the change in circumstance instantly or the dramatic re-characterizations that are yet to come.
This might help us learn to accept life more and the drama that can continually come with it.
Are we meant to have easy life's filled with the best moments and gifts? Or in some way, do we want life to be a challenge at certain moments, does life become more adored when there are highs and lows, joys and heart aches?
-RA BAR
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